Tanima
@ta
-
Tanima replied to the topic Why are Indian women expected to be 'homely'? in the forum Sexism & Patriarchy 2 years, 12 months ago
“Want a fair, educated, young woman, accustomed to all kind of household chores for marriage”-
Yes, yes, it’s just what you think. Approx each and every newspaper contains that stuff. Obviously not in tinder, but in reality most of the family wants a perfect educated homely wife who is gonna preserve their family.
Rushing out, shouting around…[Read more] -
Tanima changed their profile picture 2 years, 12 months ago
-
Tanima replied to the topic Is it right to judge women because of their dress size? in the forum Sexism & Patriarchy 2 years, 12 months ago
Look, how’s she dressing up!
Oh geez, doesn’t have any dressing sense.
This tiny length dress! And again in a community full of men!
What a whore she’s.
Must want to get raped.
A mother and still wearing shorts! Have some shame!
Doesn’t suits you.
Don’t wear those, it attracts(whispering)
What a transparent, could even come naked too……[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Female foeticide , A sin! Put this practice in dustbin! in the forum Sexism & Patriarchy 2 years, 12 months ago
Female foeticide in India has a head spanning history. Killing your child, just because she will not be a boy, she can’t accomplish those dreams which you wanted to fulfill, she has to be in boundaries which you and your society’s crazy mentality justified! How much cruel can you be.
Ok wait, of course this is not the only cause.
Poverty, the…[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Should self-defense for girls be made compulsory? in the forum Gender-based Violence 2 years, 12 months ago
If we are talking about the self defense, it can be declared as the most needed to apply for whatever we’re trying to make women empowerment, gender equality, making their way in every job and so on.
In a January 2018 survey of 1,000 women nationwide, 81 percent reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment, assault, or both in their l…[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Debate: How Women Can Become Good Leaders? in the forum Gender Barriers and Solutions to Leadership 2 years, 12 months ago
From the ancient world to recent society, we don’t want to consider women in leadership. If somehow it would be possible for a woman to make her that way, it occurred impulsively that everyone is mocking her, judging her from her background,lacking faith, exclaiming about fewer faults she had. Overall we can’t accept our women in leadership. And…[Read more]
-
Tanima replied to the topic Toys should be gender neutral in the forum Sexism & Patriarchy 3 years ago
In our modern world, there’s a lot of collection of toys, dresses, colors and so on. But can you answer me, why we always choose pink for her and blue for him? Even our famous chocolate kinder joy has it. How do they decide what can be liked by a girl or a boy?
We often go to toys shop and choose like, ‘excuse me, there’s a boy and a girl of 6…[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Decriminalization of Section 377 IPC in the forum LGBTQ Issues & Rights 3 years ago
When we start to talk about decriminalization of section 377,lets know what is about it all.
So, basically 377 is a section, included in Indian Penal Code, which forbids any unnatural sex like ‘animal sex, early age sex, nonconsensual sex with recently included anal and oral sex’. Homosexuality which defines the sexual relationship with in same…[Read more] -
Tanima started the topic Importance of women self defense. in the forum Gender-based Violence 3 years ago
You must wonder why a topic such important is here, in a debate blog. Well let me introduce to some points.
Proposal 1: in such a situation, where every day our report on rape cases are getting higher, girls must master self defense moves to continue defense against crime.
Proposal 2:we , here are talking about women safety, gender equality and…[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Compromise and kill your dream in silence, just because what will people say? in the forum General Discussions 3 years ago
If you ask me, this is suited not only for women , even men too. Women in different class often experiences a silent pressure for marriage after a certain age from their household, relatives, neighbors and who not. In maximum cases, this age is not efficient to make one’s dream come true, maybe some are preparing or still taking just their first…[Read more]
-
Tanima replied to the topic Does domestic violence affect children at home? in the forum Gender-based Violence 3 years ago
Domestic violence as we know mostly affect our women. Having a distorted relationship with distorted mentalities lead to it. And every one of us acknowledge that, discuss about it. But what about the children who is living within a room with those distorted relationship? A family is supposed to be loved. As a child we expect our parents and family…[Read more]
-
Tanima replied to the topic Is menstrual education a major concern? in the forum Reproductive Health & Rights 3 years ago
When we’re talking about menstrual education, we first had to think about all the backgrounds of our society. If we’re talking about a middle class or higher class, they are all comparatively more concern than lower class. As poverty and illiteracy engulfed them, they are making their essentials first priority. Of course, who won’t? But does their…[Read more]
-
Tanima started the topic Women empowerment, reality or still a dream? in the forum Gender Justice 3 years ago
In modern times, everyone of us know what is women empowerment and why is it so necessary to be concerned. Some of us imply that today is far better than those times when women were just a show-piece who walks on your house, providing each of your fantasies. But is it true , if it’s then how much of it?
Proposal 1: Yes, it’s true that now women…[Read more]
-
Tanima replied to the topic Women in Combat Roles in the forum Women & New Roles 3 years ago
Option A should be recommended as it serves gender equality and will help overall women empowerment.
First, if we continue make our girls think like there’s something wrong with their body, strength etc for which they can’t get to the higher rank, they can’t serve their country despite of willing, an whole gender is just going to accept them…[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Should women stay at home? in the forum Gender Justice 3 years ago
Ok let me guess…what If we tell our boys to stay home and preserve it ? everyone will elaborate their duties after home, how they are not compatible with it, how it can lead to depression etc. But what about a female? Doesn’t she want to roam free? Doesn’t she want to be settle with her own priorities? Doesn’t she have a family to feed? Can’t…[Read more]
-
Tanima replied to the topic Debate : Gender Equality or Gender Justice? in the forum Gender Justice 3 years ago
If it’s a debate about necessity of gender justice and gender equality, I’ll really prefer to say that debating among them is meaningless. As women don’t possess any of these. A common response to the efforts of gender equality specialists to bring attention
to gender perspectives in different areas/issues is that the more important work on…[Read more] -
Tanima replied to the topic Marital rape isn't legal, and that's okay? in the forum Rights & Laws 3 years ago
Ok, so here we’re talking about #maritalrape.
What do you think? I mean many people here must be brought up in a typical indian society and now just wondering…’What’s this all about ! Marital and rape! There couldn’t be any connection… Marriage is a license of free sex , right?’
Wrong… Yes, according to our culture and law, husband-wife can…[Read more]