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    Ofcourse, the answer is yes. For the reason that we exist in a cruel world where many girls are dealing with different types of issues very badly. It has become so important to teach every girl child of our nation how to defend themselves in a bad circumstance. Though it’s intolerant to accept, we can’t deny the fact that atleast a girl around the world, at this instant, may be undergoing something which is really worse than a death. And We could see the news of these brutal rapes, domestic violence, sexual harassment and acid attacks that are happening without an end. What’s happening with the government? Is the government taking action? Has all the victims been given justice? Definitely, the answer can’t be so convincing. Many girls out there aren’t provided with liberty just because of any useless brute who never regret in crossing his limits. Why should the girls still get panicked without attempting any mistake? I mean this is so unfair for the womenhood. And I swear if all this nonsense should meet up with an end, all the girls should make themselves ready for the fight against the evil thoughts. To seek and get favour can’t help all the time. Together, all girls should move up the power of women, a step ahead. To make all this happen, government can put hands in its best way. Government can take responsible actions by giving free classes on self-defenses for girls. Government can give priority to the issues women face. Making self-defense a compulsory sessions in schools can help the situation get better. Conducting seminars on self-defense, motivation classes to build them brave and bold are the steps educational institutions can take up in charge.Parents take up the huge responsibility to teach and educate them the importance of self-defense from childhood. They can sow the seeds of a brave and bold woman in her mind during her childhood phase. Hence I conclude by saying self-defense should be made compulsory for girls and the people around her throughour her life should teach her the importance of self-defense.

    arunakaleeswaran
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    I would say a big NO to what have been asked above. Because this theory indirectly says women are just the house maids. But that is not true. Women are not designed or programmed to do only the household chores. Still, they do, considering it as a part of their life, daily routine and they take it as their responsibility. A women indeed make a house, a home. They do it whole-heartedly for their own house, children, husband, father, mother, sister, brother and in-laws. Being a working woman, she does her household work by herself. Being a home-maker she does her household work by herself. Being a mother of two,three children she does her household work by herself. Women, in her life cycle, always does her household work. She manages to accomplish all her tasks in the busy schedule and still wears a smile to spark up her life and family. She solves the complexity of the house and provides a vibrant space and life to her companions. Not only maintaining the house chores, she also do a lot more for her home. And most importantly, all this is not done as a favour. But she performs all this as her duty. So, paying her an appropriate stipend is as equal as insulting her I think. And none of the women expect a reward or money for serving her housemates all long the life. What they expect is some love, encouragement and appreciation sometimes. Express your love for them often and look how beautifully they can turn their burden into their joy and pride. Thus, it’s need not required to pay a woman for the house chores she does. Just pay her by giving attention, affection, respect, care and lots of love to her. And the fact is, everyone in this world are indebted to women’s hardwork, kindness and love for life. Hence stay caring and grateful to such a woman in your home.

    arunakaleeswaran
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    It’s a well known fact that women still do majority of her household works. In this rapidly growing world, still some people tend to stay in their backward mentality supporting the male chauvinism. Speaking about male chauvinism, I do not address only the men category. Even some women are included who still think and grow a girl child saying it’s her duty to take care of the house and house chores. Ofcourse, a woman should look after herself, her home and it’s works. But why should she take care of everything only by herself? People say that a woman is dependent on her father, husband and child at her differing life cycle. Now, this ideology has started facing its extinction. Many women out there are capable of being independent and soon many will be. Likewise, it’s possible for the men too to share some responsibility in maintaining the house. I appreciate all those men who already got this right and live accordingly. But there are some who still hesitate to take over house chores just because assuming that it’s a women’s duty. All those people are need to be taught some gender equality so that, together ,we could build a liberal world

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    In our present time, women’s life cycle is programmed. She has to finish her education,get married and become a mother in her 20’s. But still there are women who take time till their 30’s to get married even. In general, Motherhood is not a choice. It is nature’s gift to women. Avoiding it is one’s unfortune. Women has this responsibility and ability to bring a new life into this world. Motherhood is a pride. Being women, we must be grateful for gaining this pride. Being a mother is not that easy. A mother has to go through physical pains, struggles and difficulties in her life. Even then she does not regret for her being a mother. On the other hand, Motherhood is not only attained and experienced by giving birth. Motherhood is an emotion that every women in the world can reflect through her vision and action.

    arunakaleeswaran
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    No, not at all. Working mothers do not hinder their children’s development. 99% of the working women are truly caring about their children’s health and education. The remaining 1% make us talk here on this topic.
    If women are expected to stay home and take care of their children’s development what is the profit of developing her girl child ? If she is also expected to do the same for the next generation why is she sent to education?
    I strongly believe that working women are never a hindrance to their children’s development.

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    Though government does whatever possible to maintain safety for women at workplace, harrassments and bullying at workplace is not stopped. Women are afraid to complain and voice out about the struggle they go through. This is only reason for harrassment at workplace to continue. Women are bullied, bodyshamed, harassed and blackmailed with the reasons of firing out of job. But women do not voice out thinking about their reputation, being fired and family situations. Most of the women work to feed their family and so the work seems more important to them. Keeping this on mind they do not voice out. But women must be bold and brave facing anything and everything she goes through.

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    Without a doubt, it is a yes to this question. Domestic violence not only hurt women physically but also the children at home are hurt mentally. Children grow up gaining knowledge from what they see,hear and experience. Most of the visuals they see during their childhood is nailed in their mind forever. Likewise, when a girl child grows up seeing domestic violence at her home, she is forever afraid of men and pushed to be live in her limit not believing anyone around. On the other hand, when a boy child grows up seeing domestic violence at his home is not aware that it is a crime and he takes it granted to follow it in his later age. Domestic violence at home is a crime.

    arunakaleeswaran
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    From the day when the practice of marriage began, there is no equal rights in marriages. The one adjusting to the situation and taking burden on head is the girl. She is forced to leave her parents, she is given all the house chores and she takes up the duty to look after the children leaving all her passion and profession back. She is being demanding with her skin colour, body shape, dressing and dowry. She is expected to follow all these to be a responsible wife, daughter-in-law and mother respectively. But with no efforts, only by working on his usual routine the role of a man is praised as responsible gentleman. Where do we see equality here? But also the development of this society paves way for these women to succeed on both their passion-profession life and the home-maker life. I am also happy that quarter of the women number select this way. But some women lag behind hanging with the permission of her family and society. Technically speaking equality is to be taken and not to expected, but some women do not realize this.

    arunakaleeswaran
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    Self defence is so much important for each and everyone in today’s world. Particularly, for women, self defense is a key that can unlock herself from the situation she is physically locked. Self defense not only includes activities like karate and teakwondo but also some mental presence of mind that can make her think what she has to do at that particular moment. By saying presence of mind I mean, even using the pepper spray she has in her bag must be clicked on her mind. Panicking at the time she is being attacked does not help her in the situation but bravely giving back helps. In the current period, women being raped, harassed and attacked are the cases that is not yet seen with a finale. In this situation, women need physical and mental self defending abilities.

    arunakaleeswaran
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    I start with a full-stop for this question. Ofcourse women can become good leaders. Already there have been many women leaders who made remarkable history. In the first place, talking about the ancient India, the list of freedom fighters include so many women leaders. Rani Lakshmi Bhai was the first women to voice against the British. Sarojini Naidu was arrested repeatedly during the time of her participation in various movements like Dandi March, Quit India Movement and Civil Obedience Movement. Notably, she was the First Women Governor of United Provinces(Present Uttar Pradesh). Likely, we have many Woman Leaders in the present situation. We see many woman politicians handling their own duties.

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