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Gayatri Somvanshi
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“Oh you know she got divorced?”
“Oh really but they were such a cute couple and he was so caring towards her.”
” Yes he was god knows maybe it’s because of her ambitious personality or she maybe not be able to please him.”
” Oh I don’t know why nowadays women want materialistic things more than love. I mean what’s wrong with lowering yourselves. A little?”

This kind of conversation we often hear and now see how women are blamed for whatever goes wrong and how she is expected to lower herself. It’s very easy to say that we choose materialistic things over love but what’s with the love that tries to control you?
What’s up with the so-called love who actually sees you as a mere property and expects you to act according to them?
It’s very ironic how people shamelessly say that women are unable to please men sexuall resulting in their divorce and how women are regarded as insufficient.
But people don’t really realise that the divorce is not something that is always caused by women. Divorce is mostly the result of man being controlling, harassing reasons or it can even be a mutual decision of the couple.
People have always been blaming women but the real reason is men have always tried to suppress women. They think being married give them a liscense to do what ever with the women and thus it progresses into violence and marital rapes and emotional torture for a woman and finally they need a breakthrough and thus the nest way is to move out of the relationship. So please stop blaming women for failing in relationships instead teach men to respect women and be loyal to her and treat her as a human being.
Teach them that women deserve respect and couples can last longer if they both have mutual respect for each other and marriage is needed to be rooted with love , respect and trust.