Compromise and kill your dream in silence, just because what will people say?

[Shreya Shukla]

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Yes, this is what most women do. Killing dreams is the worst feeling in this whole world. Humans have a lot of ambitions in life. Not only women but men also suffer from a phobia of what people would say. This is strange but true, dreams are killed by many of us just because we think that we’ll be felt ashamed of society. And in this case, most of the women killed their dreams whether it’s a small or simple dream like clothes she wants to wear etc. People will judge them and this feeling let them change their minds. If a man wants to cook people will say this is a woman’s job. I mean seriously, if something makes us happy we should stop doing it or never start it because of a single thought that people will judge them. This has to be reverted, people have to change their mindset. Killing dreams should never be an option instead we should fight for them. Without a dream, we are dying from the inside as they are the only things that keep us going on, to achieve them. So stop thinking about what people will say, do what your heart says follow your passion.

[038 deepika Singh]

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Why is it always a woman who has to compromise and kill her dream? Since childhood a daughter is told to perform and learn all the house chores, since she is likely to get married eventually. She is reminded multiple times that she needs to ‘behave’ as an inferior character since she is a ‘woman’. She is told to compromise her dreams in order to fit in the boxes of ‘stereotypes’ of our society. Many women fail to pursue their education and live the lives of their dreams due to the senseless typical mindset of our society. Some parents do their part by just graduating their girl and making them educated, skilled, ‘marriage material’ women.

Women are all- rounders! They are capable of working, earning, looking after their family, their children, managing their household but still they are taken for granted. Their efforts and hard work is often labelled as their ‘responsibility’ and are not given the respect and appreciation they deserve. Instead they are told to adhere to the societal norms, sit at home and performs their duties I.e kill their dreams and live for others. But why only them? Why not a man? Because this is how our society works! This is the dirt and filth filled inside the brains of our people. And till the time this dirt is not flushed out, their is no way our women will ever be able to achieve equal treatment as men.

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