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Discrimination in a society is very common especially when a woman is unable to convince . Pregnancy and the feeling of pregnancy is very e different it cannot be fine in words . But there are many women who are not unable feel this and can’t get this happiness because she is unable to conceive due to which many times the women remain unmarried . Then it seems that a woman is considered to be a machine to produce children, which if work, then it is fine and if do not, then it is of no use and does not have any value.
There are many women who are not able to conceive or don’t want to be pregnant but want a baby so they decide to adopt child . Society and the family never accept that adopted children since for them the child is not a part . And that women is always blamed for this . If family always wanted baby of their online so that the generation will go on. In India, the biggest motive for getting married is to pursue your dynasty. After marriage, she is expected to become mother as soon as possible and if this does not happen then she has to face the taunts of all the family members , her in-law and the society. Women who are not able to become mothers, they never get the respect that other women get . Without knowing reason , what were the circumstances , situation . They simply rains water on her and says that you are cursed at being a woman who you cannot give a child.
Adoption , gives new lives to both women and children and a bright future for child and happiness to women . The society does not want this they always don’t that mother that child and never let them live their own life. They don’t even think that if women is adopting is child it doesn’t mean she cannot give birth to child maybe she is a model or heroine , maybe she is in army , maybe it’s against a job requirement or may be health issues . But our society adopting child means the woman is not able to conceive . The society never accepts women who adopt children and also refuses to consider it a part of their festivals. We need to grow up and we need to grow up or thinking also .